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    Unreasonable Hospitality

    The Remarkable Power of Giving People More Than They Expect

    By Will Guidara

    Published 10/2022



    About the Author

    Will Guidara is a renowned figure in the world of hospitality, known for his remarkable journey through the restaurant industry and his groundbreaking ideas on hospitality. Growing up in a family deeply embedded in hospitality, Guidara was destined for this path. His parents met while working in the industry, and he later graduated from the School of Hotel Administration at Cornell. Guidara's career began in earnest when he joined Eleven Madison Park, a restaurant that he and his partner, chef Daniel Humm, transformed into one of the world's best. Guidara's approach to hospitality, which he calls "unreasonable hospitality," emphasizes going above and beyond to make people feel truly special and appreciated.

    Main Idea

    The main idea of "Unreasonable Hospitality: The Remarkable Power of Giving People More Than They Expect" is to illustrate how extraordinary acts of hospitality can revolutionize businesses and transform ordinary interactions into memorable experiences. Guidara's philosophy extends beyond the restaurant industry, offering valuable lessons for any organization that interacts with people, whether customers or employees. His concept of unreasonable hospitality involves intentional, thoughtful, and often extravagant efforts to make people feel valued, which in turn fosters a culture of excellence and mutual respect.

    Table of Contents

    1. Introduction
    2. The Journey Begins
    3. Embracing Unreasonable Hospitality
    4. Building a Team
    5. Creating a Culture of Excellence
    6. Balancing Creativity and Business Acumen
    7. Leading with Intention
    8. Unforgettable Experiences
    9. The Road to Number One
    10. Conclusion

    Introduction

    Guidara opens his book with a personal anecdote that sets the stage for his philosophy. He recalls an event where his restaurant, Eleven Madison Park, was named one of the world's 50 best restaurants, but it placed last on the list. Despite the honor, Guidara and Humm felt disappointed. This experience taught them that while their restaurant was excellent, it hadn't done anything revolutionary. They realized that to climb higher, they needed to innovate not just in cuisine, but in how they made people feel.

    Key Insight

    Guidara's realization was profound: true hospitality goes beyond mere competence. It involves making people feel spectacular and forging genuine connections. This approach not only delights customers but also brings immense satisfaction to the providers of such service. As Guidara puts it,

    "Hospitality means going far beyond just doing a competent and efficient job. It is about making people feel spectacular and forging a true connection." - Will Guidara

    The Journey Begins

    Guidara's journey into the world of hospitality started early. His parents' involvement in the industry and his education at Cornell's School of Hotel Administration set the foundation. A pivotal moment came when his mother passed away, and a chef provided a special dining experience that brought joy during a difficult time. This event underscored the noble nature of working in service and inspired Guidara's career path.

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