Who Will Cry When You Die?

About the Author

Robin Sharma is a globally renowned self-help guru, leadership expert, and author. Best known for his book "The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari," Sharma has dedicated his career to helping individuals and organizations achieve their highest potential. His works are a blend of timeless wisdom, practical advice, and his own personal experiences. With a background in law, Sharma turned to writing and motivational speaking, impacting millions worldwide with his inspirational messages.

Main Idea

In "Who Will Cry When You Die?", Robin Sharma argues that many people prioritize the wrong aspects of life—such as money, success, and status—only to end up with regrets. He emphasizes the importance of seizing control of one’s life to live without regret and make a positive impact on the world. Through a series of digestible and diverse life lessons, Sharma provides practical advice to help readers define their purpose and take actionable steps towards a more meaningful and fulfilling life.

Table of Contents

1. The Goal: Stop Wasting Your Life by Seizing Control of It
2. To Seize Control, Set a Purpose
3. Tactic 1: Stay Focused on Your Purpose
4. Tactic 2: Live Every Day Fully
5. Tactic 3: Be Mindful
6. Tactic 4: Cope Appropriately With Difficulty
7. Tactic 5: Seek Help From Others
8. Tactic 6: Be More Disciplined
9. Tactic 7: Practice Kindness
10. Tactic 8: Let Go

The Goal: Stop Wasting Your Life by Seizing Control of It

Robin Sharma opens the book with a profound observation that many people spend their lives chasing after superficial goals like wealth, success, and social status, only to find themselves filled with regret as they near the end of their lives. He stresses that real fulfillment comes from making meaningful contributions to the world and nurturing deep, personal connections.

"We are caught up in unimportant details, such as career success and social status, rather than the big-picture considerations that make life worth living, like family, love, and community." - Robin Sharma

Sharma challenges readers to re-evaluate their priorities and take proactive steps to ensure they lead a life without regret. He encourages a shift in focus from external achievements to internal fulfillment and lasting legacy.

Understanding Control

Sharma asserts that the first step towards a meaningful life is recognizing that we have control over our own destinies. This involves acknowledging our ability to shape our lives through our choices and actions.

“To lead a life you won’t regret, take action to make that possible: Seize control of your life.” - Robin Sharma

To Seize Control, Set a Purpose

Knowing that you are in control of your life is empowering, but it is only useful if you have a clear understanding of what you want to achieve. Sharma emphasizes the importance of defining a life purpose that guides your actions and decisions. He suggests reflecting on your unique strengths and considering how you can use them to contribute positively to the world.

"Your purpose is the special ability you were born with that you can use to make the world a better place." - Robin Sharma